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Story: Rude and abnoxious

Submitted 6th September, 2009 Average Rating: 4

My mol has some nerve. When we are eating together as a family she makes it a point to sit near my children so she can have the say in what is going on. If we don't allow our child to have or do something she makes a big stink about it and says "why can't she?" right in front of our child. It truly is getting to the point to where I can not handle being in the same room.
She used the line today to my husband who was doing a good job dealing with her control issue and said "we didn't raise you this way". What the heck is that supposed to mean? Oh I'm sorry did we do something wrong? Asking our children to sit at the table and eat at a resturant is obviously torture.
I just can't get it. I truly believe she is saying and doing things to make me look bad in front of everyone. I also think she is trying to distroy my marriage. Having to deal with this has been horrible on my husband and I. He grew up with her rude and annoying comments and says "that is just the way she is", but I grew up in a family who respected each other and didn't make disrespectful comments ALL THE TIME.
So I get angry when allows her to say the things she says without any repercussions. I've gotten to the point where I am defensive and truly angry around her.
I don't know if she is doing this on purpose to distroy our marriage or if she is truly that stupid. I have also gotten to the point to where I won't allow her to be that way to me and I will defend myself.
Which then turns into "poor me" and she will throw a fit, leave the room, and go cry. So I am always the bad person. When she left the room today I thought, good leave, then I don't have to look at your face anymore. It is just so exhausting.
I makes me sad that I don't have any type of relationship with her, but I don't see how it will ever happen unless she is accepting and respectful of me being a daughter in law and a mother.

Story: Advice needed

Submitted 4th September, 2009 Average Rating: 3

i feel extremely uncomfortable around my inlaws ,,,
when v r all together ( my husbands family ) they usu start taunting n commenting at everything ,,, from my appearence to my future plans..... at times they dont even speak to me and refuse to acknowledge my presence,,, if i want to get up and go then my husband forces me to sit in between them... we all live together and i feel suffocated..... there is no option of moving out as its a close knit hypocrate joint family ..... and even my husband is unwilling to move out ... how do i handle this ,,,

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Advice Wanted: Constantly ask about grandchildren...

Submitted 19th May, 2009

What do you do with in-laws that constantly ask about grandchildren?
I have had my fill of this!
We got married 2 years ago, and 8 weeks and 2 days after we got married we started getting asked if we were planning to have a baby. At the time I politely replied, "At some point yes, but we are not ready yet. We are just getting adjusted to and enjoying married life." I thought this would put an end to it, however, I was very wrong.

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