then this christmas she was mad at us even though she said she wasnt we knew she was, so she decided she was gonna have christmas morning even though she knew that we were doing it, we rushed to have our living room finished the day before. and she said she shes the MOM and shes having christmas morning like she always does, even though she doesnt. she also said that no one wanted to come to our house even though they tell us they hate going to her house because they dont like her husbands kids. she also went so far as to fake having chest pains christmas eve she tried to say she was at the doctor that night just to try to get us to cancel! and funny how the pains were never brought up the next day, she didnt even call any of her other kids christmas eve just us to tell us shes at the doctor...yeah right we already know you lie about dumb shit! needless to say we ended up having christmas morning after arguing with her and telling her that her kids are married and have lives now, they dont need to run to their mommy christmas morning but she insisted that her kids need to come to her. she has given me so many problems throughout the last 6 years that i dont know how i havent knocked her out yet. she made up all these lies about me the first year of me and my husband dating, that i was a slut and he was better off with a hooker (even though my husband was my first and only) that i abused his dog, and that i didnt love him, when i confronted her by calling she just ignored me and they didnt talk for a while, she called him like 20 times a day just screaming...she also called up my husbands ex girlfriend and told her to come get the dog they had gotten when they were dating that my husband didnt have time for it, and the ex literally came and got the dog. me and my husband had no idea what to say to her because what she did made no sense and was just wrong..the situation was never brought up again though. she had us stay at her house for a few months because she was always gone and wanted us to stay with her 15 year old son, so thats exactly what we did, until one day her daughter came home from college and they were all in the back bedroom talking and we heard her son say TELL THEM TO LEAVE THEN so my husband said you want us to leave ? just say it, we only stayed here because you told us to we dont care if we leave, so then shes like no thats not what i meant...so we just left. she also loaned him money to get a car and he was making payments to her and she kept saying that she wasnt getting them from us, she kept saying we owed her more and more. she also comes to live with us weeks at a time because she fights with her husband, but while shes here bitching about him she will also be on the phone flirting and talking nice to him, saying i love you, he will pick her up from our house and go on dates everynight. sometimes he comes in and they watch tv on our couch cuddling, there was even a time she brought him upstairs into our spare rooom. she shaves, and takes showers to go out with him. WHY ARE YOU LIVING AT YOUR SONS HOUSE IF YOUR GETTING ALONG WITH YOUR HUSBAND? seriously who does that? last time my husband told her to go home because she was repeating the process. you either fix your relationship or divorce you dont live with your son and date your husband. im telling you this women is wacked, one minute shes crying to us about her horrible life, then a second later shes laughing...then shes pissed...i swear shes bipolar...help!!!!!